Baseball lost a friend

I could go on and on about the benefits of Baseball as a youth sport.  The values and lessons it teaches children are amazing.  They have to succeed as an individual and as a team.  They have to work with others in order to win.  They can do everything right and still loose.  They have to listen to the coach and do what is best for the team when sometimes that isn't what is best for themselves.  It truly does so much more for a child than just the athletics side of things.  M would not be the same person he is today without Baseball and all the experiences that has brought him.

But past that, baseball has been a wonderful gift to our whole family.  The people we have met, the friends we have made, and the experiences we have had.  It has truly changed our life for the better.

One of those families we met through the Tigers.  We became good friends.  Many a morning, afternoon, and late night has been spent sitting with Charlie and Tiffany out in the hot sun or in the cold wind or in the rain watching our team do what they do (and cheering them on).   We have been there to congratulate our boys and the team when they do well, and also been sad with them when it all doesn't go their way.  Baseball creates a bond not only between the team, but also between the parents.

They decided to move on, which happens, and still we watch each other's team play, keep up with how everyone is doing, and always cheer for each other's boys as they play hard.   Our weekly breakfast get together was something I always looked forward to.

It has been tough couple of years for Tiffany as she battled hard with illness.  She has been through a roller coaster ride, but we all had hope that things were looking better right now.  But it was not to be.  Today Tiffany lost her battle, she has left us to be in a better place and to keep an eye on all of us from Heaven.

Obviously her family will miss her and things will not be the same, but her Baseball family will also miss her and that will also never be the same.

The Question of the Season

Yep, its that time of the year, when everyone asks,  "What do you want for Christmas?"

and everyone asks you for ideas of what they can put on their Christmas list.

and everyone asks what you got for Christmas.

There is also the, "What should I get XXX for Christmas"

It is the every lasting question of this time of year.

I have a suggestion for everyone.  Something you can ask for, something you can give people,  something that wont break the bank, and yet they wont return.

Ready?  Got your pencil?

Memories.

Thats right, Memories.

Think back to times past.  Good times and Bad times.  Those memories are what is special.  Not the actual gift, or thing or whatever was going on at the time.  But the memory of that time and who you spent it with.  That is what will stay with you forever.

This past weekend as we were doing back to back family Christmas celebrations, we had discussions about Grandparents.  I lost most of mine while young.  I reminded my father that I do have memories of his father.  This was a long time ago, and I was young, but I have those memories.

At the same time I have memories of his mother, her teaching me to cook / bake things. Spending time with her.

I remember driving my TR3, around town with 12 other girls stuffed inside it  (OK, it wasnt 12, but it was a lot)

I remember walking up to a group of guys 26 years ago and the one I wanted to speak to walked away and I had to chase him down to talk to him.  Yep, that was E

I remember the holidays for E and I way back when was spent mostly in the car driving all over East Texas from one family event to another to make sure we didn't miss any of them and get in trouble.

I remember my life changing with the birth of my child.   (and in case I haven't mentioned this lately,  NO ONE told me that being a mother was a full contact sport)

I remember the first time M cussed.  I got so mad, and E was cracking up laughing.

so you see, these are what we cherish, these are what we dig deep and pull up.  The physical things help us bring back those memories, but the memories are what we all want.

so, whether its aunts, uncles, kids, grandkids, or friends.  Do something with them.  Anything.  Just make memories.

Merry Christmas

End of Fall Baseball

Another Tigers season has drawn to a close and now we sit and stare at each other wondering what we should be doing (not really).  The Tigers did well, had a lot of rain outs which made it a longer Fall season than anticipated but they played hard when they were permitted to play.  Fall season ended with a record of 14-7-1, not too shabby.  Since I didn't post at the end of Spring/Summer the record at the end of that season was 34-25-1.  So, to help you out with the math that means between February 2013 and November 2013 the Tigers played 82 games or about half of a major-league season.  No wonder we're all tired.  Of course, that's only games and doesn't count the practices, lessons, and other baseball-related events of the last few months.

The Tigers ended this season with a charity tournament in Grand Prairie known as Santa Cop.  The tournament collects toys from all of the players to donate to needy kids.  They also collected money for other programs.  Of course everyone was more than willing to help out and they had a trailer full of donations.  The Tigers won both of their "pool" games and were seeded #4 going into elimination day.  They then played 4 games on Sunday, giving all of the parents a heart attack during the 1st game when they were down 6-1 and came back to win it on a Bomber winning walk-off double!!  They made it all the way to the championship but came up short there and had to settle for second place.  They played hard all day and were hitting the ball like crazy!  Here is a picture of the boys taking a break before the last two games:

In case you can't guess, they are all looking at one of the boy's phones playing a game.

Here is a picture of the team with their 2nd place rings.

Here is a picture of the boy with his coach, yes he is taller than his coach!  But, they make a great pair.

Way to go Tigers and congratulations on another great season!

On another note and subject of a future blog post - this is the last picture of the boy and this coach you will likely see....  we already miss you Eddie!

Family Pictures

I used to have a rule and the rule was we got family pictures made at least once a year, usually in the Fall.  This rule was fairly easy to follow as long as the boy was small and agreeable.  Then he got older and it got harder and he became less agreeable.  Then our photographer "retired" and went on to other things.  Then life got in the way and the next thing I knew it had been 3 years since we'd had family pictures.  So I set out last year and found a new family photographer.  The boys like her so it makes things a little easier.  But, no surprise I'm sure, this year when I mentioned it was time again for family photos I got some push back.  But, I held firm and insisted since the boy has grown SOOOOOO much in the last year, these are things the family pictures are meant to capture.

So, a couple of weeks ago we had our appointment with Kelly and, of course, we got our baseball schedule with games scheduled for 11 and 1 with our picture appointment set for 4... hmmmm, this could be a problem.  But, again, I held firm and determined and said we are going to make it work.  It was a challenge for sure but we made it work!!!  So, two years in a row we have stuck to the rule and have new family pictures to show for it.  Are you ready to see them?  I know, the suspense is killing you....

Did I mention Kelly has a thing for feet?  She swears its not a fetish but I'm beginning to wonder.  I think there's an argument there to be made.  Maybe next time she'll take pictures of something other than our shoes.  Oh, and that reminds me, I really need to get the boy some new shoes, I think he's worn those out.

Annual Tree Picture

The first Fall we moved into this house we planted a live oak tree in the back yard.  That year and each year since I've tried to get a picture of the boy with the tree to show the growth.  I'm fairly confident the boy is growing faster than the tree...  hopefully his roots are just as strong!

2005

2013

The Grid Iron...

As many faithful readers are aware, the boy started 7th grade this year.  Of course that means athletics and FOOTBALL!!!!  The boy has wanted to play football since he was a wee child but he was always too big for the weight categories in pee wee football.  This would mean red shirt and no touching the ball.

He got interested more in baseball and the subject was tabled for a couple of years.  But, he started middle school and all it took was one look from the coach and the recruiting started.  All through 6th grade the coach was on him about signing up for football and the boy was on the fence about it.  Time came to register for 7th grade and he still hadn't made a decision but we put him in athletics and waited to see.

When the school year started he dove right in to football.  This was a huge time commitment for him with practice every day in athletics and after school.  It meant a lot of "superman" in the land yacht as we rushed from football to baseball.  It also meant a lot of figuring out things that could be hot and ready and eaten in the car (besides the $.99 heart attack in a bag).

After a week of practice the coach assigned the boys to teams.  The boy was thrilled to be named to A Team!  He was told his position would be primarily Strong Tackle and he was loving it.

The team worked hard and started the season a little rough.  The boy was added to special teams for kickoff return and moved around there a couple of times.  The team lost the first four games.  The coach then changed things up a bit and had the boy start playing defense in addition to offense and special teams and was assigned a defensive end position.  The team started to win games and gained momentum.  By the end of the season they had won the last four games.  By the end of the season the boy played every down in every game.   The team even had a "Follow Bonner" play where he ran up the side making a hole for the running back.  He had become the football machine the coach wanted him to be.

Family Update

Wow, I cant believe its October.

I means, its October, no joke,  check your calendar if you dont believe me

It has been a long time since I wrote anything here, I know, I have been bad.  I figure I needed to update everyone on all the crazy things going on in our life or else maybe you think we fell off the face of the earth.

Lets work backwards, because thats just how my brain works.

Domino got skunked the other night.  After many baths, he still stinks.  after burning many candles in the house it still stinks.

you would think by now he would learn to not try and play with the little black and white doggy

In case I havent mentioned this before, my dog, he isnt the smartest dog around.  According to E he is stupid.  I wont say that, but smart he aint either

M is playing football this fall.  He is having a great time (this week he played both ways, Defense and Offense)  He is working hard at it and all his coaches are telling him that.  But between 5 days of football practice, 1 football game a week, plus baseball practice, plus lessons, plus velocity let me tell you what.  M now knows the true definition of worn out.

I will say we are very proud of him for working as hard as he has in his school work, football and baseball.  It has taken a lot of dedication on his part and he is really only whiney and cranky 5 or 6 days a week which i think is good for a teenager.

yes I know he isnt officially a teenager, but if you lived with him you would know, he is a teenager. and having a day or 2 of non whiney with a teenage is a big deal

Speaking of skunks (Squirrel!) did I mention we also ran into a skunk at the hanger the other day?  he was waddling around when we pulled up, he crawled under one of the containers and was going after some baby bunnies, (who were screaming at him)   When he came out (without a baby bunny) he met the bad end of a rifle, a couple of times...

and yes, it smelled bad.

I think if E ran across the one in our neighborhood its fate would be similar.

and since we are on the subject of baseball, as I said, M is playing baseball this fall.  he is still on the same team and about half of the team stayed on from the spring so they have picked up quite a few players.  We have played one tournament which they did fairly well in, the next tournament was rained out before it ever got going, the next tournament was rained out almost at the end of pool play, but of course since our games were some of the last pool play games, we never took a pitch, never threw a pitch.  We have another tournament coming up, which of course it is supposed to rain then.

Ahh the joys of playing baseball in the fall.

or at this point, not playing baseball, even though you are supposed to play baseball, because even though you are playing baseball, you arent actually playing baseball

clear as mud right?

G is following in M's footsteps and is on a T ball team, playing on the same fields M played T ball on.

Of course she has a pink bat and M never had a pink bat, his was red though so i guess that counts.  Red is close to pink

Speaking of school, M is in 7th grade now,

I know, 7th grade, OMG!.  He is like 6 feet tall.

OK, maybe he isnt 6 feet tall, I think he's actually only 5-10.  But he is still taller than me.  E keeps trying to convince me to wear heels so I will be closer to his height.  My problem is heels and I dont get along.  If you ever saw the movie "the birdcage" the guy there says  "I dont wear shoes because they make me fall down"  well I feel like that when it comes to heels.

SQUIRREL!

so anyway, 7th grade, I guess he likes it about as much as he likes any school.  One of his electives is a class called "outdoor education" where basically they are teaching them about hunting and specifically archery.  Its taught by the archery coach so I think its just a class where he is trying to find people who can shoot a bow, but M seems to enjoy the class so thats good.

Well, I am sure there have been many other things that have happened, but considering how long it took me to start writing this, and how long it has taken me to get it finished and to this point, I should probably go ahead and post this

I will do my best to keep this more up to date